The program of dynamic communication on remote games.

Monday 19 October, 2020

In the upcoming Spring-Summer Remote Games, with some players (starting with the warrior ** level), Lil Academy will launch a dynamic communication program.

The program of dynamic communication on remote games is launched with those players who participated in dynamic groups on the on-site retreats with Rama.

The program of dynamic communication is aimed at:

  • Translate remote communication with the learner into real-time events.
  • Go from an indirect discussion of fears and defenses to direct analysis of them in current situations, manifested directly in the dynamics of communication during the distance game.

The basis of this method of work is the following:
If you have a problem, after a while it will start to manifest itself in communication.

Direct awareness of the problem on the actual fact of communication with the Sangha will help to see it more precisely and quickly and, accordingly, to solve it.

Dynamic communication will be built on reliance on specific facts of remote communication with Sangha, through analysis:

  • Style presentation of reports
  • Manner of communication,
  •   Analysis of your diaries
  •  Often emerging defenses and patterns of escape from responsibility during the execution of various tasks,
  • Your manners ask questions,
  • Your reactions to the provocation of the Sangha and her remarks,
  •  As well as the timeliness of the tasks,
  • Reaction to failure and success, praise and criticism, and much more.

As a result of this communication, in the process of distance learning, we will receive real, reliable material (not from your subjective stories and descriptions that you are of course expounding from your "bell tower"), but from a specific situation in which the Sangha, as really accompanying you Conductor, was a direct witness and saw your reaction. This will allow more accurate analysis and detect blind spots of the Player and, accordingly, highlighting them, raising their level of awareness.

You must remember that development presupposes, first of all, constant changes!
Changes are the main constant value of development!
Dynamic communication in a remote game, fulfills the learning mission:

  • This way of your communication with others, which becomes for you a step towards spiritual development.
  • The ability to remain in the position of responsibility, not the victim, in any situation of social communication.
  • Deep knowledge and self-discovery through communication.
  • Overcoming social fears and the ability to burn in society, and not burn!

Dynamic communication requires compliance with certain rules that you will need to accept and comply with, before proceeding to it.
Question: Why is communication called dynamic?

Dynamic, because it involves the dynamics of relationships (changes in feelings, in relation to the objects of communication from love to hate) and our task is to be able to notice, to realize our reactions. Awareness of their reactions is the first step in order to learn how to manage them.
So, in the process of dynamic communication, the learner lives the entire spectrum of his senses and learns to understand them.

About the rules of dynamic communication. First about common:

  • The first rule concerns Sincerity. We think the comments here are superfluous. If you can not be sincere in some questions, it's better to say this than to invent or "veteevato" and blurry trying to evade the answer.
  • Concreteness - try to avoid generalizations, and if it does happen, then explain specifically what you mean.
  • Disclosure. It is important to have a mindset for disclosure - this is, first of all, the spirit of taking "criticism" and everything that does not coincide with your point of view about yourself, with your beliefs. This kind of mood will help you see the "log" in your own eye, change the so-called "assemblage point of your perception" and get away from the rigid, unnecessary and destructive behavior patterns, thinking, and respons
  • It is important to remember the idea of ​​change, which is leading in the DEVELOPMENT process, and you can change only when you question your point of view. If you defend it and prove it with "foam at the mouth", then no changes will occur in your life, and accordingly, DEVELOPMENT!

The following rules - to observe is extremely important!

  • During dynamic communication it is extremely necessary to be in the position of responsibility - this is the position when you accept everything that happens to you as necessary for you. When you know exactly what the world (the universe) - those events that happen to you, helps you. And you listen to everything that happens to you and learn a lesson!
  • The position of responsibility is the opposite of the position of the victim, when you blame someone specifically or the World (the Universe), that they are to blame for the fact that you are suffering. When events that happen to you are perceived not as a lesson and necessary for you, but as punishment or something undesirable, interfering with your life. If you are in the position of a victim, then the mission of dynamic communication becomes impossible.
  • During critical comments in your address, it is important instead of justifications and explanations: describe your feelings about these comments, describe your condition, because it will help determine the main subject of our search: the motive - from which you live. And if this motif is FEAR, then we can get out of his influence.

So, remember these rules of dynamic communication:

  • Do not make excuses or try to explain in response to criticisms, why you did it anyway, and describe your feelings and try to accept criticism.
  • To accept criticism means not to be afraid of it, but to see help in it that helps you to see your "blind spots" about yourself.
  • When you disagree with something, before you express your point of view, it is also important to describe your feelings, your condition. This is the moment when your hardened beliefs are affected and it is the fear of their wreck that forces you to defend, argue.
  • Remember, before you defend your point of view, write about your feelings and describe your condition right up to the motive.

Perhaps, in the course of our dynamic communication in remote games, you may have both negative and positive feelings for the conductor. It is also important to describe them and at the same time remember the phenomenon of transfer, which is studied in the distance game Self-analysis.
It is important for us to catch any living reactions of rejection, reactions coming from fears and getting rid of them.

With Love, Sangha.



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